Billy Joel has opened up about why he avoided making documentaries about his life for so long — and why he finally gave in for Billy Joel: And So It Goes, the new two-part HBO special that dives deep into his personal and professional journey.
The legendary “Piano Man” told People that he had consistently turned down offers to document his story because he’s never been comfortable speaking about himself. “I’ve resisted this kind of thing for so long,” the 76-year-old said. “I’m sick of talking about myself. Some of the stupid stuff I did, that’s painful to talk about.”
But eventually, he gave the green light — with one simple instruction to the filmmakers: “Just tell the truth.”
The documentary explores the highs and lows of Joel’s life — from his chart-topping success and musical legacy to deeply personal challenges, including struggles with addiction, failed marriages, and mental health. Joel admitted the experience was unexpectedly revealing.
“There was some stuff I found out about myself. There was some self-revelatory stuff,” he said, reflecting on how the process helped him come to terms with parts of his past he often avoids discussing.
Despite his initial reluctance, Joel said he didn’t hate the final cut — which, in his words, is a major compliment. “I was worried, maybe I’m going to hate this thing… But at the end, I didn’t hate it.”
The father of three — Alexa, 39 (with ex-wife Christie Brinkley), and Della, 9, and Remy, 7 (with current wife Alexis Roderick) — said that having family and friends contribute to the film added a meaningful layer, though he admitted the attention on his personal life can feel “embarrassing.”
Joel also reflected on his recent health news. In May, he revealed a diagnosis of normal pressure hydrocephalus, a treatable brain condition, which led to the postponement of some tour dates. Still, he reassured fans: “I’m okay.”
Looking back, Joel said he’s learned to own his mistakes — and embrace them. “You realise sometimes you were a jerk and you did something stupid or you were wrong. But I always maintain that the only original thing any of us really does is make mistakes.”
Billy Joel: And So It Goes is now streaming on HBO, offering fans a rare and honest glimpse into the life of a true music icon — from the man himself, who never really wanted to talk about it.
