Jennifer Lopez made a stunning revelation on SiriusXM’s Howard Stern Show, admitting she’s never felt truly loved despite four marriages, stating her exes “gave me all the rings, all the things I could ever want” but weren’t emotionally capable of loving her.
When Stern asked “Do you think you’ve truly been loved?” Lopez initially responded “no” before reflecting that she understands what it means to love someone else. The 56-year-old singer explained “What I learned is it’s not that I’m not lovable, it’s that they’re not capable.”
Jennifer Lopez called her 2024 divorce from Ben Affleck “the best thing that ever happened to me,” revealing she worked with therapists, coaches, and spiritual advisors to understand her relationship patterns. She acknowledged part of the problem was “I didn’t love myself” during those relationships.
The “Lopez” interview sparked debate on social media, with some questioning why her exes found successful marriages after their divorces while others defended her for taking ownership of choosing partners who couldn’t meet her emotional needs despite providing material wealth.

